Wednesday, December 23, 2009
What I am today because you loved me. This song for you.
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Monday, December 07, 2009
2. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
5. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7. Believe in love at first sight.
8. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
11. Don't judge people by their relatives.
12. Talk slowly but think quickly.
13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
15. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.
16. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
17. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
18. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
19. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
20. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice
21. Spend some time alone.
Each point has a deep meaning in our life and great lesson to learn everyday.
Tuesday, December 01, 2009
Than the choice comes in my mind either to make happy or sad day. I always prefer to have happy day so I only think all the positive aspect which I have in hand at the moment. Despite of work pressure I try my best not to carry home any work matter at home. A few years ago I work in challenging, high pressure and tough situation, sometimes I recall the painful day and time I have gone through and just cannot belief myself how I overcome those tough time. I remember the book i have read "TOUGH TIME NEVER LAST BUT TOUGH PEOPLE DO" so now I am much happier ever that I have an opportunity to face those tough time and situation. I never regret rather it make me stronger each day I face new challenges.
Happy or sad is my choice. What ever I do, wherever I go I can find unhappiness. Instead I always look at things in two direction that is how I learn my new life concept this year and glad to say that it is successful to me. It may be worse circumstances I always try to see the silver line which comes next.
This is how I make my life Happy each day.
Monday, November 23, 2009
On the first day, as Abraham Lincoln entered to give his inaugural address, just in the middle,one man stood up.He was a rich aristocrat. He said that, " Mr.Lincoln, you should not forget that your father used to make shoes for my family". And the whole senate laughed;they thought they had made a fool of Abraham Lincoln.
But Lincoln-and that type of people are made of a totally different mettle, Lincoln looked at the man and said, "Sir i know my father used to make shoes in your house for your family, and there will be many others here...because the way he made shoes; nobody else can. He was a creator. His shoes were not just shoes, he poured his whole soul in it. I want to ask you, have you any complaint? Because i know how to make shoes myself; if you have any complaint i can make another pair of shoes. But as far as i know, nobody has ever complained about my father's shoes.He was a genius,a great creator and i am proud of my father".
The whole senate was struck dumb. They could not understand what kind of man Abraham Lincoln was. He had made shoe making an art, a creativity. And he was proud that his father did the job so well that not even a single complaint had ever been heard.
It does not matter what you do. What matters is how you do it-of our own accord, with your vision, with your own love. Then whatever you touch becomes gold.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
This very evening after work I left my office and went along with Esther. We were sharing about our day to day job and have a nice time chatting on my way back home. Between our conversations she tells me about one lady who come to
Conversation goes very smooth and I feel very interesting and one particular word strikes me “Be PATIENCE in life”. As in my case I am always hurry and cannot wait many things in life, many a times I do not have patience to wait and sometimes ask myself why to wait when I can do today? Yes there are many things which need to wait but in every person these things will be different, so depends on persons to persons and situation they come across. Thought time is precious but we have many things undone and also there are many cases which need time to wait. So all these needs to be rectify, analyze and think it over again and again.
This same thought comes to my mind from the time I wake up from bed this very morning. As usual prepare my self to work and headed to office. From my residence to office it takes 45 minutes. Reach office and work as usual. The day went peacefully complete my day to day job. I just ponder, why Esther did mention again these words!! I was surprise for a while. She too incidentally speaks out her thoughts to me that very day. At the time of departure I told her, Esther we have the same thought today. And she said “Irene, God speaks to you today and be happy” than she left me.
After Esther left, I am still wondering about our discussion today and also my present life. Those many years ago I want to have and do things but never get it or done until the times comes. So everyday I learn many new things. If I have what I want in those days and done, may be I do not know the value and what God wants. So now, I realize God schedule everything for his people and loved one. We need to work on it continuously and have patience. He will provide everything if we trust and belief in him.
While this thoughts filled me all over I am overwhelm to hear this song “Four Days Late” by Karen Peck & New River.
I quote here only the chorus of this song –
You are Four days late
And all hope is gone
Lord we don’t understand why you waited so long.
But His way is God's way
Not yours or mine
And Isn’t great! He is four days late
He is still on time.
Sunday, November 01, 2009
The next day was Sunday, wake up early in the morning I prepare myself to visit her. But I pause for a while to decide, whether to attend coaching classes first and visit in the second hour. And finally I decided to cook some food and visit her in the second hour. In the hostel we cannot cook as we like as facilities are very limited. I understand her situation very well as I am in the hostel around10 years long.
This is the first time I visit her since she change her hostel. Thought she is much younger to me she is smart, strong and can take care of her self. She knows that I am also busy with my work as well as my studies she hardly disturbed me unless in serious matter so whenever she call me I give importance to her request too.
When I arrive in their Hostel Campus I am lost which road to take. So I waited for her at the entrance of the campus for a while. In spite of her weak health she has to come long distance to pick me I feel sad for her. She came along with her roomie and when she saw me she feel very comfort and happy. We chit chat all the way while we are walking inside the campus.We have nice time together, had lunch under the shade trees and continue chatting. After lunch they took me around of their university campus, its so beautiful and greeny environment. It reminds me of my college days when I saw many young college students hanging around inside the campus.
Before I depart, I advise her to take extra care and to take medic on time and promise her to see again next weekend.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Now I feel deserve to hang out to exit myself and relax. I decided to hang out at park where I can feel close to green environment of nature. Admiring the architect landscapes design and it beautiful flowers, shrub and trees makes me feel relax. Walking along site of coastal area with bare foot and the sea wind blows gently, blew away all my tiredness. After long distance walk get in to a wonderful restaurant to fill my hungry stomach...yummy...very great appetite to eat….
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Tuesday, October 06, 2009
The Seminar for the IGOF which my department handled directly was held at MIOT Auditorium. Delegates from Europe and Asia continent of Professional Doctors comes together to share their special skills. I was very tense if anything goes wrong during this seminar. So without any problem we wind off the seminar gracefully. I am very grateful to all other department colleagues who make the day so successful. Cheers to them all…
Monday, September 28, 2009
Thanks to my Mom, who sends warm wishes accross the miles, my Boy-friend who sends loving wishes along with birthday card accross the miles, my friends who sends wishes through face book and orkut social networking, my colleagues and all my North east friends who arrange a wonderful dinner of North east cuisine... Thank you one and all. I am happy and glad from the debt of my heart to all my well wishers and love ones that they make a great day. You will be all remembered always.
All my friends despite of their busy working schedule they spare wonderful time for me. Its great!
Sunday, September 27, 2009
Monday, September 21, 2009
Friday, September 11, 2009
KA HMANGAIH CHE SIN by H.Lalmuankimi
Tinkim ka han dawn changin
Tawn loh kar hun tawite pawh
Kei ka tan kum tam iangin
A rei lua a sin
Min han dawn ve thin che maw
Ka Duhlai Mampui
Ka duh ber che, Ka Hmangaih ber che
Tia biahthu ka hlan che hi
Min la rinhleh sak dawn em ni
Ka Hmangaih che a sin.
Zantiang chawrthla eng hnuaiah
Mahten ka han dawn thin che
Awmhar lunglen tuar a har
Kei ka tan tahna mai maw
Min han dawn ve thin che maw
Ka duhlai Mampui.
This particular song stanza is for me. This is exactly what I feel…Out of the blue it happen! Love has no boundary...
Ava mak em! Ka han dawnin
Tiang renga thinlai luah zo
Awm thei ngai hian ka in ring lo
Nang ngai hian e, tuan ka rel thei lo.
A va mak em! Ka hril thiam thei lo
Ti em a lung i dum mai hi
I sakhmelah dar zam em ni le
I tel lo chuan ka tlei thei lo.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
From my personal point of view this has special impact in the field of health care. The new advancement and higher technology in the field of health care sector has brought trememdouse life saving by organs transplant in this present world. Though the price may be high but patient pay the price to live long. There is also negative and positive aspect in organ donation. So it depends on each person concience to decide whether to donate organs in proper channel or not.
Every year, more than 100,000 Indians suffer from end-stage renal disease, but only 100 get kidneys from deceased donors. However, through private initiatives such as the MIOT Organ Drive (MODE) launched by deputy chief minister M K Stalin on Friday, private healthcare providers hope to chip in.
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Friday, August 07, 2009
Monday, July 20, 2009
Thanks to Ms.Geeta for spending her valuable time. I will always keep in my heart of what I have learned from the land of South India. So looking forward someday to cook for my family and friends who like to taste South Indian Food.